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ANYONE THAT ANNOYS YOU –is teaching you patience and calmness.ANYONE THAT ABANDONS YOU –is teaching you how to stand up on your own feet.ANYBODY THAT OFFENDS YOU –is teaching you forgiveness and compassion.ANYTHING THAT YOU HATE –is teaching you, unconditional love.ANYTHING THAT YOU FEAR –is teaching you the courage to overcome your fears.ANYTHING YOU CAN’T CONTROL –is teaching you to let go.ANY “NO” YOU GET FROM HUMAN –is teaching you to be independent.ANY PROBLEM YOU’RE FACING –is teaching you how to get a solution to problems.ANY ATTACK YOU GET FROM PEOPLE –is teaching you the best form of defence.ANYONE WHO LOOKS DOWN ON YOU –is teaching you to look up to CREATOR ( GOD ).Always look out for the lesson in every situation you face in every phase of life.Be polite, calm, gentle and thankful to God because He will be with you to the end.Life had taught me lessons. I do not see people at my cross road, because humans are not reliable. I only see God as the author and finisher of my faith.R E F L E C T I O N SWhen you live your life without anyone betraying, hurting, disappointing, disgracing or offending you, then it means you never did anything worthy.The beauty of life, is that it comes with disappointments and betrayals, from people you least expect.Unfortunately, some of us spend so much time crying over these betrayals and disappointments, and end up becoming victims of all circumstances.Remember One Thing: Holding unto anger is like knocking your head on the wall and expecting the other person to feel the pain. You are only hurting yourself.The fact is that the world is full of annoying, naughty, stupid and ungrateful people, and you will always come across them at one point or another in life. But the best thing to do, is to deal with them with wisdom and maturity.You can’t get everyone to love you, think like you or behave like you… never.
Reminiscing
I was sitting down discussing with my granddaughter how we’re going to approach what will become an author interview. We were talking about how old I was when it was I first wrote a story, and what was that story about. OK, that sent me back a long way into the distant past. There wasContinue reading “Reminiscing”
Dead Reckoning
Dead Reckoning Fourteen U.S. destroyers barreled down the California coast in a dense fog—until a wrong turn led to the largest peacetime disaster in American naval history. BY ROBERT KOLKER The Atavist Magazine, No. 142 Robert Kolker is the author of the New York Times best-selling Lost Girls and Hidden Valley Road. He is a…Continue reading “Dead Reckoning”
Parents worry about their kids heading to university because their youngsters think they’re invincible, study finds
AS freshers week falls upon universities across the country, mums and dads are getting ready to help their youngsters move out of home for the first time. But such a big change is due to spark worries and fears in thousands of parents, with 41% admitting feeling anxious about the idea of their kids goingContinue reading “Parents worry about their kids heading to university because their youngsters think they’re invincible, study finds”